buyer ask me to cancel this item and return the money to her.
1. Log into PayPal, find the transaction, and click on the "refund" link.
2. Visit the eBay Resolution Center, and start a Cancellation Request. Your Final Value Fees will be refunded after the buyer agrees.
Remember that merely stating that you ship only to the USA is insufficient to stop non-USA bidders from bidding.
• To learn how to block unwanted bidders from your auctions, see
http://pages.ebay.com/help/sell/manage_bidders_ov.html
• To learn how to block certain classes of bidders (such as bidders whose primary location is in a country to which you do not ship, or or bidders with excessive Unpaid Item strikes, or bidders who do not have a PayPal account), see
http://pages.ebay.com/help/sell/buyer-requirements.html
Note: If you block a bidder, AND select the "Don't allow blocked buyers to contact me" option, the blocked bidder will not see the "Contact Seller" link on your listings.
• To block PayPal payments from bidders who do not meet your specifications, see
https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_profile-pref
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